tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1389183235712193128.post4724786826093042733..comments2023-05-20T18:52:42.959+08:00Comments on FIZA O: Getting hit by someone so wrong. You're barking up the wrong tree, dude.FIZA Ohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05651302470725048783noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1389183235712193128.post-40999805526822209882011-11-11T15:07:27.014+08:002011-11-11T15:07:27.014+08:00Why don't you bring to your hubby's attent...Why don't you bring to your hubby's attention? Show to him the evidence. Get your hubby to talk to your BIL. Man to man. Insyallah your hubby will be able to help you out of this undesirable situation. Your hubby is your best friend.Anom Azizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18350895681235461635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1389183235712193128.post-71079580315040646742011-11-02T01:13:24.995+08:002011-11-02T01:13:24.995+08:00if u want to protect ur sister, the first person u...if u want to protect ur sister, the first person u'll protect her from is her philandering husband. sometimes, the right thing to do hurts. But yes, if you really love her, you ought to tell her the truth. <br />No one deserves a jerk for a spouse. You know you don't. So does your sister. Think of her, her future, the future of her kids.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1389183235712193128.post-64669677348628191822011-08-26T01:57:39.757+08:002011-08-26T01:57:39.757+08:00Hi.. ITS ME.
I've seen all the responses here ...Hi.. ITS ME.<br />I've seen all the responses here is for me to tell my sister. I just cant. I'm the older sister. I do not want her to be upset. She had been thru so many challenges. I need to protect her. I did keep all the chats as proof (for later if my BIL gets overboard). I was initially helping my BIL overcoming his grievances over the death of their child. That's when he started calling me to TALK. He had fancied me since we first met. But I was engaged then and he admitted that he was dissapointed. I knew nothing of that. I got married to my fiance. And he married my younger sister. I truly believe that he loves my sister. I'm just someone that he fancies from the past. Its just shocking that he still does after almost 20 years. For him to confess that to me was just not right. I'm so uncomfortable around him nowadays. We met often as we are a close knit family. I've warned him. Stopped answering his calls. Whenever he msg me on FB, I keep to safe topic. If he starts talking dirty, I go offline. I'm just praying hard that for the sake of our family UNITY, I'm willing to keep this secret .. provided he keeps his end of the bargain. Its just that I wish he never tells me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1389183235712193128.post-10645937845822973582011-08-25T22:32:53.101+08:002011-08-25T22:32:53.101+08:00Tell your sister!! Crazy disgusting man!Tell your sister!! Crazy disgusting man!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1389183235712193128.post-90195581305111259872011-08-25T10:48:33.193+08:002011-08-25T10:48:33.193+08:00Best thing is to talk to ur sis in a nice way and ...Best thing is to talk to ur sis in a nice way and if she dont believe it, show all his sms and fb chat or pm..Or play trap like ask ur sis to hide and u meet ur bro in law see wats his up to..Tts d onli way babe,u must be strong and brave to do all this,pity ur sis n urself :)PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1389183235712193128.post-26649054441523643562011-08-25T10:41:12.634+08:002011-08-25T10:41:12.634+08:00Ive been in a similar situation before but with so...Ive been in a similar situation before but with someone single - at least from what he told me. There are more guys like these than what we think. They fancy a person in a different way. More sexually than anything else. And to them it is different from loving someone, hence they wouldnt regard it as wrong - even when they're married, in the case of ur brother. I know it is a very scary situation to be in, what more when the guy's ur own bro-in-law. My suggestion is u to give him a final warning that u'll expose wtv he'd done should he continue. And if he still does, the best u can do is to tell ur sister straight up. Express ur fears and concerns so that she'll understand that this is serious and it affects u greatly. Coz she probably wouldnt easily believe it in the first place. Hence it all comes down to how u break it up to her. Eventually she'll get to know the truth and insyallah everything will be alright again. Gd luck..=)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1389183235712193128.post-85090664853448186282011-08-25T10:02:14.954+08:002011-08-25T10:02:14.954+08:00Oh my, this is really really sick!!!! If it is an ...Oh my, this is really really sick!!!! If it is an outsider, we could simply avoid him or report him to the police but to think, someone in the 'family' is doing that to her....The poor girl must be in such a dilemma...She cant simply avoid him forever as he is her bro in law...But if I were her, I would want him to stop harassing me...Does she have phone logs or chat logs when this 'perv' talk to her...Probably it is best to talk to ur sis about it...or may be her parents....if they dont believe her, she cud show them the chat logs? but of coz, you have to be prepared for the outcome of this conversation....Minta pada Allah...semoga Allah tunjukkan jalan keluarnya...insyallah...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1389183235712193128.post-2513606064897953902011-08-25T09:56:37.147+08:002011-08-25T09:56:37.147+08:00no point blocking him n stuffs. face him n ur sis...no point blocking him n stuffs. face him n ur sister. tell ur sister dat he had been a paranoid in ur life since day 1. if he could do this to u, means he could do to all e ladies out der. n ur sister doesnt even hav a clue about his idiotic behaviour. b strong n burp out the truth. it will nt only benefit u bt ur sister too. i know its easier said den done done bt im sure u're capable of it babe! =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1389183235712193128.post-27127079727373816992011-08-25T09:53:25.892+08:002011-08-25T09:53:25.892+08:00Tell him to stop & warn him tat u will expose ...Tell him to stop & warn him tat u will expose him to his wife & family if he doesnt. the chats btwn u n him can be made as proof. dun let him affect ur life by letting him continue w all tis nonsense & make u live in fear.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1389183235712193128.post-44560318393238750822011-08-25T09:48:22.804+08:002011-08-25T09:48:22.804+08:00The BIL is damn sicko. If she cant stand it anm, t...The BIL is damn sicko. If she cant stand it anm, tell her mother the whole story and seek her advise on how to overcome the situation. Both of them have to slowly plan how to convey the incident to the sister. Sometimes, some wives will tend to defend her husband rather than their own blood. For the time being, avoid him & slam down all his calls. If things get personal, *start meraba* report him to the police !!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1389183235712193128.post-56323929434840639222011-08-25T09:46:36.609+08:002011-08-25T09:46:36.609+08:00i think she should talk to her brother in law that...i think she should talk to her brother in law that what he's doin is not right. if her brother in law still do that to her she should tell her sister and be honest. is she still engaged ? then she should tell to her tunang lah. and avoid the call from her brother in law. block him at the facebook.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1389183235712193128.post-18898677244260710252011-08-25T09:43:48.870+08:002011-08-25T09:43:48.870+08:00omg !!! that is truly madly deeply sick in de dam...omg !!! that is truly madly deeply sick in de damn bloody brain. such a pervert betol ah de guy. infact there are still some guys out there who's worst than this. wonder whutt was even on their mind when literally n clearly they alrdy have a LEGAL PARTNER to get lusted with. *pfftAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com